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How to guide (from www.BigOguide.com)
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Let's get right to the point - you are not going to achieve greatness in bed without a little groundwork.
So before we continue, you need to memorize and live by these ten ground rules:
1. Always practice safe sex. Your health, and the health of your partner are things you should never take
lightly. Treat your bodies with the respect they deserve.
2. Stop fixating on your penis size, it won't grow any larger by wishing - trust me on this one. For her to
achieve a G-Spot orgasm, the size of your penis does NOT matter.
3. Don't worry if you can't last long during intercourse, that is NOT the key to her orgasm. In the next
section you will learn techniques that make it enjoyable for her every time, so stop worrying and start
having fun.
4. Put down the rings, creams, toys and lotion. None of that stuff is necessary for delivering the goods.
5. Foreplay. It's important, use it. Your partner has over 10 erogenous zones (What are they? Submit your
email address and we'll tell you -->) that you should get to know well. Start with simple things and do them
consistently - play with her hair, massage her feet, kiss the back of her neck. Do this frequently and expect
NOTHING in return.
6. Show her affection and kindness as often as you can and WITHOUT expectations. This does not mean, "be a
wimp". On the contrary, be a man in your relationship - confident, decisive, comforting and responsible for
the well being she entrusts in you.
7. You are not "owed" anything, so if you are feeling like you are due some favors after a long night of
foreplay, taking out the trash, or otherwise not being a jackass, you need to change your attitude. The
investment you make in her will come back to you 10 fold.
8. Be clever. Do not jam your newfound knowledge in her face. Introduce these techniques on the sly.
9. Be patient and never be discouraged. Mastering these techniques takes time. Not just for you to learn but
for her body to learn as well. The more you practice the more in tune you both will become.
10. Timing is everything. There is never a need to rush to an orgasm. It is not something you should ever try
to force. Take your time, be patient, and most importantly enjoy the experience.
Now let's get to it.
The techniques presented here are specific to the vaginal (G-Spot) orgasm. G-Spot orgasms are hugely rewarding
for both partners. You get the satisfaction of feeling like you have truly satisfied your partner, something no
one else will be able to do. And she gets a true, body changing experience that will leave her glowing for days.
G-Spot orgasms are the "Oh my GOD", orgasms often portrayed in the movies. The kind of orgasm where she may leave
nail marks across your back, thrusting wildly against your body and moaning up a storm.
It is important to note that utilizing these techniques should be undertaken only if you are in excellent health.
Both you and your partner will experience mind-blowing orgasms. Please consult your physician prior to engaging in
this level of sexual experience. :)
Before you jump in you need to make sure she is ready to receive this kind of special attention from you. DO NOT
ask her if she is "ready". Instead, learn to read her body language. If she indicates she isn't in the mood, don't
push it. Also, if you get into these techniques and find out she isn't interested don't be discouraged. Be patient
and try again another day.
If during any of these techniques she asks you to stop, DO SO IMMEDIATELY. It may be causing her extreme discomfort.
On the flip side if she asks you to keep going with a certain technique; definitely keep going.
Set The Mood
Make sure you spend adequate time setting the mood for the big day. Don't do obvious things that spell "I'm going
to do you", because that is a major mood killer.
If it's a massage make sure neither of you are wearing any clothes. Get some good smelling massage oil and heat it
under the sink briefly before using it (make sure its not too hot!). DO NOT get massage oil into her vagina or on her
clitoris. Have a warm, wet towel nearby and wipe off your hands before you get into the techniques described below.
Start with her front side, massaging and kissing her all over. When you get to the backside make sure you thoroughly
massage all of her parts paying special attention to her feet, calf muscles, back of her thighs and her butt.
Give her a deep rub on both butt cheeks. Spread them apart with each circular rub - you will hear her getting wet
already.
Move up between her thighs and straddle her legs. Lean down so your penis pushes up against her butt and rests down
into her vagina.
Rub her back for several seconds, leaving your penis in place. Now work your hand up towards her head and part her
hair away from her face and neck.
Lean down and whisper in her ear how good she looks. Begin sucking on her ear while you slowly move your body up and
down, causing your penis to move slowly around the outside of her vagina.
Warm Up
After you have been kissing for a few minutes, move your hand slowly down her body. Spend a few moments
around each breast.
When you come to her stomach gently massage it in a circular motion. Pause for a few seconds over her belly
button. Place the palm of your hand, fingers spread out towards her breasts, just below her belly button.
Gently apply gradually increasing pressure with your whole hand. This should be lightly firm but should never
cause her pain or discomfort. Leave your hand there for a few more seconds, without moving. (Read the Girl Tip! -->)
Now work your hand down towards her clitoris (to see a picture, click here. Note the "clitoris" is under the skin
labeled as "Clitoral Hood", we consider them the same thing).
It is a good idea to have some lube handy any time you go about stimulating her.
Rest your entire hand on her clitoris for a few moments. Continue kissing her.
As you rest your hand over her clitoris you will feel the ridge of her clitoris begin to get harder and more pronounced (if you do it correctly -->).
Take your index and middle fingers and place them on the sides of her clitoris, one on each side. Stroke her slowly up and down her clitoris for a few seconds, alternating with soft circular motions. Keep this up for a few minutes, but don't overdo it.
Place all of your fingers together and rest the palm of your hand on her clitoris. Fold your fingers down over her opening and begin to massage it using a gentile circular motion. Do this for several seconds. (See the animation in the premium section..)
DON'T FORGET - make sure you keep kissing her, alternating between her lips, neck and nipples.
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